DATING TIPS FOR MEN

Developing a sense of humor

It is a very important trait which a girl looks for in his man. If you
will ask the girls the most important thing they look in their
partner, mostly will say "their sense of humor".

When you come across as being a person with a sense of humour, people
will feel comfortable in your presence and find it easier to approach
you and converse with you. It helps build much needed rapport and a
certain level of trust.

Most actors like Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt are so irresistible because of
their sense of humor.
How to develop a sense of humor?

1. Start by creating your own humor library.

2. Visit the library everyday, especially before each date.

3. Surround yourself with people who make you laugh.

4. Enjoy at least 10 laughs a day--and don't forget to poke fun at yourself.

SOME QUOTES:

"From there to here, and here to there, funny things are everywhere."
--Dr. Seuss

"You grow up the day you have your first real laugh - at yourself."
--Edith Barrymore

How to SEDUCE women?

First things first; Seduction is not a set of techniques; seduction is
a state of mind that produces techniques of seduction. You behave
according to what you think. Always remember this thing: "YOUR STATE
OF MIND CREATES THE STATE OF YOUR RESULTS".

Step by step approach:

1. Correct Body language – art of nonverbal seduction
2. Approach her
3. Talk to her – cool essence is the key here
4. Make her your friend – be mysterious and predicatable (that is what
women get attracted to)
5. Seduce her to the bed.

I am presuming that she is already your friend. And now all you want
is to take her to your bed. Right?

First and foremost thing, seduction is a strategical game where your
ULTIMATE GOAL is to have sex with someone. Second thing, you have to
master the skills of reading the body language of women. All your
answers lie there.

Now the question is how to succeed in this game of seduction?

1. Have Patience – Most of the men have the habit of rushing into
everything, including sex. The trick to the game is to pretend that
sex is the last thing on your mind (even though we all know it is the
first thing).

2. Exude confidence & power – Both men and women are drawn to those
who exude power, as there is something about the attribute that makes
a person attractive. Be MYSTERIOUS & UNPREDICTABLE in your approach.
Tell for youself, who excites you more - Peter Parker or Spiderman?

3. Be interested in what she has to say (fake it if you must) and
above all make her laugh (with witty remarks rather than lame jokes
and stupid behavior). This is utmost important.

4. Eye contact. Make eye contact, but please look her in the eye
gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away. Don't stare –
it's a turn off. While talking, move closer to her and you can even
touch her shoulders, back, etc. But you should appear very casual and
please, don't overdo that. Judge every movement of her and try reading
her body language. You will get your answers whether she is interested
or not. Act accordingly. Follow your instincts.

5. Learn to use your own voice to more effect. Speak slowly, surely
and more deeply. All women love a very slow, deep speaking voice.
Women find this to be very sexy and very attractive.

6. Have fun. Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your
vulnerability. Always wear a smile. Develop a charming personality and
you will become a people magnet.
Likewise, when you can master the key sex cues like the smile, voice
tonality, body language and the others, you can make women feel deep
attraction even if you look like a half-mutant crossbreed between
Chewbacca and Greedo.

FLIRTING: "To play at love, without serious intentions." It is often
done to arouse sexual interest in another person. Flirting is fun; it
is just kidding around. Have the intention of fun and nothing else. It
is not serious, so you cant do anything wrong! It is kind of a joke
about what they're doing; with which you tease them and kid them
about. Remember: You dont have to do the right thing, because you are
just kidding.

Your FRAME OF MIND is very important in flirting. Don't try to be a
flirt. Skills of flirting come automatically to you from your
sub-consciousness if you just loosen yourself and have a positive
approach of mind.
Flirting Tips

1. Focus outward. Keep your attention outside yourself, toward a
particular flirting target or toward the general social environment.
You can't flirt while you're self-absorbed.

2. While flirting, follow up with a helpful comment. That helps them
know you are kind, not just light-heartedly rude.

3. Body Language: Straighten up, good posture, shoulders relaxed, arms
uncrossed, lean forward slightly.

4. Have fun. Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability.

5. Compliment. Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments
have the element of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really
noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and
genuine. When you receive a compliment the best response is merely to
say Thank You!

6. Use your eyes. Whether in conversation or across the room, look at
your target's eyes a little longer than necessary, and keep a small
smile on your own face while you do that.

7. Smile. It is contagious. It will make you so much more
approachable. A smile lights up your face and draws people to you.